Domestic disipline relationshipis when a husbend and wife agree to a set of rules and regulations. This includes pubishment that includes spanking. While d.d.r is part of a fringe of fundamentalist Christianity, there are eliments of non relugius or a religious people who prarice a form of domestic disipline.
When does domestic disipline relationship begin? Does it start after the wedding or before? Is it legitimate for it to start before wedding day?
Brad was smart and athletic. At east coast fundamental university, he was in well regard. He was active in the student government association as well as was active in sports. He haf a reputation as a stickler. He adhered firmly to school regs. He was kind of a legalist. Some felt that he was a little too rigid.
Withinn the student body, he had both fans and detractors. The staff and faculty generally regarded him favoribly. There were a few that were a bit sceptical of him.
Girls at the school tended to be divided as well. Some had a huge crush om him. Others did not cate for him. Others were on the fense concerning him.
He had rigid standards. He was umcompromising on them. Many young ladies tried to get him to court them. He rebuffed them. The more they tried to persue him, the more he rebuffed them. He sometimes played impodible to get. They could not figure out of this was a test or if he was really testing them. Normaly the young ladies eventually just gave up. They moved on. Perhaps that waa his goal all along.
Some wondered if mayby he felt called to be single. They suspected he wanted to be maried. Most concluded that he was just really really picky.
Tessa was a freshman when he was a senior. He caught her eye. She liked him from a far at first. She waited for a time . she finaly went to talk to him. It was during an evening meal that she decided to talk to him.
“May i sit hear? ” tess asked. “Of course! Please.” brad responded. She wore a yelow dress and flip flops. She sat down. ” im tessi. ” she said. “Im brad!” he said in a matter of fact tone.
“It is good to meet you.” she said. “You as well. ” brad said. She could not tell he wanted her there. He seemed almost uninterested in talkiing to her. Was that the case or was that just how he was. She could not tell. Should she just back off or keep trying.
She spent over a month trying to get into his life. Finaly he started to open up to her. Some would probably have given up by now but not her. She was not going to give up easily.
“Tessi i get the impreson that you aspire to something between us beyound simple friendship. ” brad remarked. ” that is true brad. I do. What about you?” she asked.
“Do you soport domestic disipline relationship? ” he asked. “Yes i do. ” she answered. “Are you wiling you to adhere to rules we agree on ? ” he asked. “Yes i do. My parents have instilled in me the importence of rules and the d.d.r arrangement. I have resolved to be in accordance with it. “She said in response. “Are you wiling to accept punishment for not adhering to my rules?” he asked. “Yes i am.”she reaplied.
” does that include spanking? “She asked. “Spanking is a key component of domestic disipline. I accept that. I am wiling to be spanked if you felt that my behavior was not to your liking. ” she said .” i just wanted to make sure. “He said.
They datted unoficialy for a time. He graduated from e.c.f.u . They did not live too far from eachother.
“I would like to formerly date you..” brad said in a matter of fact tone. She smilled. ” i would love that. ” she said.”i want to have rules during our courtship. “He said.
“Do i assume corectly that The rules will include punishment up to and including spanking? ” she asked. ” yes that is correct. I believe that i am not permitted to see you naked until after marriage. I would like to spank you though your ubderware should you violate our agreed on rules. ” he said.
She was a bit taken aback. She always considered this to be something that would be for marriage. Within a few rules it could be used before the marriage. She agred to it within some guidelines.
She got the impreson he wanted to spank her. Was he a saddest? Did he have some kind of bondege fetish. She was not sure.
One day she accidently broke a rule. She knew that some kind of punishment was coming. She was ok with that. She had accepted that punishment was part of that arrangement.
She wore a gray t shirt and denim skirts. He put her over his knee. He pulled. of her skirt. He swated her but. He started of light and got more intense. She was stioc at first . after several swats she broke down crying.
After she held on to him. He hugged her. She liked him. She liked how be was.
Eventually they got maried abd had kids. He did continue to spank her. She did not mind.
Probably in a real Christian d.d, there would not be spanking pree marriage. Prior to a few years back, i did not know that this existed. In cyberspace, there are christian and non Christian d.d sites. There are some that might be spoof sites. I wanted to write a story about girlfriend being spanked.