I got spanked and i loved it.  

a young lady discovers she needs to be spanked. then she comes to love it.


I’M jess. I grew up in a very strict Christian home.  We went to a church that outsiders would discribe aa separatist. Even conservative Christian groups might view our church as going  too far.  

Growing up,  i realy did not anything different.  To me it seened perfectly right and natural.  Many objected to how we did things.  Some used the c(cult( word. 

The church kept to themselves.  We only associated with churches like us. We kind of kept them at arms laungh as well. 

We separated from the world and churches we viewed as wordly sbd compromising.  In other ways we were a bit lacks. We did not have prohibitions against dancing or telivison or certen secular music. We did probibit goung to secular dances, movie theaters or such. We were against goung to bars but alowed moderate consumption of alcohol.  That led to conservitive critism of our church. We were hit on the left and the right. 

We were oppossed to public education. We were also oposed to private School and even Christian school. We beleved in home school. We beleved in disipline. 

As a child i was spanked.  As was my siblings. We had ni clue that it was controversial.  I had no idea that some even in the church viwed spanking as a form of abuse.  I was a firm belever that to spare the rod was to spoil the child.  

I believe that my development pment as an adult and as a Christian can be atributed to my upbringing. This includes being disiplined. That disipline includes being spanked.  I have spoken to ny brothers and sisters and they agree with my viws on that. They feel that spanking and the other disiplines helped there gowth and development as people, citizens and Christians. 

As i entered adulthood i was not really spanked.  Our church does not put limits on when an offspring could be spanked.  They beleve a daughter is under the parents until they marry.  I was single at the time and living at home.  I was not spanked. 

Was it because i no longer needed to be spanked or was i becoming a better sinner?  Was i learning how to comit white collar sins? Things that were not as easily detected. Thought crimes perhaps.  I would not bring that up. Perhaps it had just been a kind of peeinoia. Perhaps it was unfounded condemnation that had no bases in reality.  I felt dirty.  I felt like i needed a spanking.  I was not sure why.  

I decided to talk to the pastors wife about it. Dona was a good friend. While the church beleved in male leadership,  the younger women looked to older women.   Women had unofficial authority over other ladies. The younger lades looked to the older lades for guidance abd advice.  Dona was a kind of first lady of the church. She was sweet. Although she was qiet and shy, she had a lot of wisdom. Her asvice was sound and affective.  

One day i talked to her about it. I sat down with her over cofee and muffins.  “It has been a while sence i was spanked. I feel i am a good citizens. I feel like i need to be spanked.  I have not done anything the world, or society or the church would consider bad but j feel off” i told her. 

“It is dificult transitioning from adolescence to adulthood.  Suddenly you go from no fredom, no autonomy to alnost total fredom abd atonomy. You are mearly trying to short it all out. It is a dificult process for those of us who follow the way.   Some chose anarchy.  Some leave this way.some go to the denominations for answers. Some go to the world. It is normal for you to feel this way. ” dona told me. 

“What do i do?” i asked.”perhaps you should ask your mom for maintenance spanking.  Once a day or once a week . They serve as a reninder. ” she said.

I liked the idea.  I thought that that might help . i sat down with my mom. I explained to her my feelings ans concerns.  I also discussed dona’s suggestion.  

“Do you want a spanking hunnie?” my mom asked. I indicated that i did. She agreed to administer a maintenance spanking.   

She told me to get over her knee. I wore a white shirt and a black skirt.  She hicked up my skirt. She pulled down my nylons and my panties.  She caressed my back side. Then she retracted her hand ans gave my buttocksa huge swat. She kept going. 

It did not hurt at first. It got more and more intense. I was in pain after. I cried. We hugged. I felt better. I got the maintenance spanking every day. I found them very helpful.  They helped make me  calm and kept me calm. 

From that time until i got married,  my mom continued to spank me. I started to change.  It made all the difference.  

I felt different. It helped me a lott. The church noticed a difference in me. They saw me beccoming more mature. I saw that i was growing up. 

Several young man in the church began to want to court me. The church held signle mixers and velitines day events. I interected with various young man at the church. 

I went on some dates. Then one stood out above the rest.  Andrew’s father was a members of the church elders. His grandfather had been an elder but had steped down but was stil a hournered person in the church.  Andrew was a member of the bored of trustees.  He had a good reputation in the church.

The two of us started to date more. He was smart, mature,  funy and good looking.we dated for a time then entered into a formal courtship in consultation with both sets of parents.  

After a court ship, he proposed and i said yes. We were maried that spring.on my wedding day, i had my mom give me one last spanking. 

We went to a hotel in a citty in another sate. The wedding night went really really well.  I decided that we need to do something about mantinence spanking.  

The next day i decided to deal with the issue i consudered ro to be very importent. “I need you to spank me every day!” i said. He was really confused. ” what?” he asked.

“I want to receive maitinence spanking every day in order to stay centered. ” i said.

It took some convincing but i convinced him to spank me. He had me sit on his lap. He pulled up mu night gowan. He was firm in his swats then i expected. .he got more and more firce. We hugged after.

It became a rituel. We did it over the honymoon and also long after we got home. Every morning i got spanked shower then cofee and breakfast. 

Over time i found i looked froward to being spanked. Some times i fantasize about being spanked.  I was a submissive i guess.  I loved to be dominated. Not just anyone but by Andrew. 

Andrew was soft spoken.  He was even keeled. He was a servant leader. While he was not a blow hard, he was a leader. He was in charge. I loved it.

The end. 

My last story, we had a new convert who was spanked.  I wanted to go though a different path. I wanted to depict some one who grew up in the church who liked spanking. 

The girlfriend 

A colege freshman tries to get the attention of a senior that thinks he is all that.

Domestic disipline relationshipis when a husbend and wife agree to a set of rules and regulations.  This includes pubishment that includes spanking.  While d.d.r is part of a fringe of fundamentalist Christianity,  there are eliments of non relugius or a religious people who prarice a form of domestic disipline.

When does domestic disipline relationship begin? Does it start after the wedding or before? Is it legitimate for it to start before wedding day?

Brad was smart and athletic.  At east coast fundamental university, he was in well regard. He was active in the student government association as well as was active in sports. He haf a reputation as a stickler.  He adhered firmly to school regs. He was kind of a legalist. Some felt that he was a little too rigid. 

Withinn the student body,  he had both fans and detractors.  The staff and faculty generally regarded him favoribly. There were a few that were a bit sceptical of him. 

Girls at the school tended to be divided as well. Some had a huge crush om him. Others did not cate for him. Others were on the fense concerning him. 

He had rigid standards. He was umcompromising on them. Many young ladies tried to get him to court them. He rebuffed them.  The more they tried to persue him, the more he rebuffed them.  He sometimes played impodible to get. They could not figure out of this was a test or if he was really testing them. Normaly the young ladies eventually just gave up. They moved on. Perhaps that waa his goal all along. 

Some wondered if mayby he felt called to be single.  They suspected he wanted to be maried.  Most concluded that he was just really really picky. 

Tessa was a freshman when he was a senior.  He caught her eye. She liked him from a far at first.  She waited for a time . she finaly went to talk to him. It was during an evening meal that she decided to talk to him.  

“May i sit hear? ” tess asked.  “Of course! Please.” brad responded. She wore a yelow dress and flip flops. She sat down.  ” im tessi. ” she said. “Im brad!” he said in a matter of fact tone.

“It is good to meet you.” she said. “You as well. ” brad said. She could not tell he wanted her there. He seemed almost uninterested in talkiing to her. Was that the case or was that just how he was. She could not tell. Should she just back off or keep trying.  

She spent over a month trying to get into his life. Finaly he started to open up to her. Some would probably have given up by now but not her. She was not going to give up easily. 

“Tessi i get the impreson that you aspire to something between us beyound simple friendship. ” brad remarked.  ” that is true brad. I do. What about you?” she asked. 

“Do you soport domestic disipline relationship? ” he asked. “Yes i do. ” she answered. “Are you wiling you to adhere to rules we agree on ? ” he asked. “Yes i do. My parents have instilled in me the importence of rules and the d.d.r arrangement.  I have resolved to be in accordance with it. “She said in response. “Are you wiling to accept punishment for not adhering to my rules?” he asked. “Yes i am.”she reaplied.

” does that include spanking? “She asked.  “Spanking is a key component of domestic disipline.  I accept that.  I am wiling to be spanked if you felt that my behavior was not to your liking.  ” she said .” i just wanted to make sure. “He said. 

They datted unoficialy for a time. He graduated from e.c.f.u . They did not live too far from eachother.  

“I would like to formerly date you..” brad said in a matter of fact tone. She smilled. ” i would love that. ” she said.”i want to have rules during our courtship. “He said.

“Do i assume corectly that The rules will include punishment up to and including spanking? ” she asked.  ” yes that is correct. I believe that i am not permitted to see you naked until after marriage. I would like to spank you though your ubderware should you violate our agreed on rules. ” he said. 

She was a bit taken aback. She always considered this to be something that would be for marriage.  Within a few rules it could be used before the marriage.  She agred to it within some guidelines. 

She got the impreson he wanted to spank her. Was he a saddest?  Did he have some kind of bondege fetish. She was not sure.  

One day she accidently broke a rule. She knew that some kind of punishment was coming.  She was ok with that. She had accepted that punishment was part of that arrangement.  

She wore a gray t shirt and denim skirts. He put her over his knee. He pulled. of her skirt. He swated her but. He started of light and got more intense. She was stioc at first . after several swats she broke down crying.

After she held on to him. He hugged her. She liked him. She liked how be was. 

Eventually they got maried abd had kids. He did continue to spank her. She did not mind. 

The end 

Probably in a real Christian d.d, there would not be spanking pree marriage.  Prior to a few years back, i did not know that this existed.  In cyberspace,  there are christian and non Christian d.d sites. There are some that might be spoof sites. I wanted to write a story about girlfriend being spanked. 

Reason to spank 

Based on an anti spanking psa on you tube. A wife and husband debate spanking.

Joel and lisa had been maried for a few years now.  They had a six year old son. Joel tended to be fairly passive.  He was soft spoken and normally reserved. Lisa had strong opinions. 

Joel noticed that the dishes were piling up. This had become fairly routine recently. He had spoken tp her about it. Nothing seemed to change. 

Joel worked hard. He started out in the mail room and was now vice president of marketing.  They owned a nice home. She had her own car. She was well provided for. He felt like he had fulfuled his end of the social contract. Now it was her turn. He felt like she had a much easier job then he did. Apparently she did not see it that way. 

“Hunnie will you please take care of the dishes?” he asked. “I am buisy. I will get to it later.”she said. He had had it. He felt like he had had it.he tried to be understanding. He felt like he was beyond his breaking point. 

He stood up. “Get up!” he incisted. “What?” she said. “Get up!” he insisted.  She looked indignant.  “Whats going on?” she asked In an incredulous tone. “You heard me. Get up!” the usually mild manored joel instructed. 

She was shocked and outraged. “Why?” she asked.  “I am going to give you a spanking! ” he declared in a matter of fact tone. “Spanking! You cant do that!” she said.

“Many culrures practice wife spanking.  It goes back to the beginning of recorded hiatory. Probably before.  ” he said. 

“It is repugnent. It is barberic. ” she remarked. ” you spank our son. ” he said.”well thats different.  ” she said.”why? “He asked. ” well i dont know. It just is. ” she said. 

“You spank jimmy. He is only six. ” she said “well true. He is our son. I am your wife. Its different it just is.” she said.

“You disipline him when he fails to live up to his responsibilities!  You have failed to live up to yours. Is not it your job to mantain the home?  You have not lived up to your end of the social compact. Should there not be repercussions for that action as there are with him?” he asked. 

“Well this is 2017. We dont do things like that any more.  This is the united states. ” she declared. “Jimmy is a us citizen. You dont have a problem spanking him. Why is one ok and the other is not?” he asked.

“It just is. Spanking adult women is different then spanking a young child. That is just sinply how it is. “She said.

“Both are controversial. Some would say you are a bad mother for even considering soanking a defeness child!” he said 

“Well it is good for him.  He needs to learn boundries. He needs to learn that you cant do whatever you want. There are laws. There are universial rules. Rules recognized by almost every nation culture and religions. If they are not folowed there must be consciences. He must learn that he has responsibilities. We gave expectations for him. It is for his own good! ” she said.

“I have exspectations for you. I agreed to provide for you. You agreed to mantain it. Should you not provide for your end?”he said.

“Well it is different.  “She said “so its ok for him to shirk his responsibilities but not you?” he asked. “Well yes i gues. ” she said. 

“Are you realy not going to submit to being spanked? “He asked. “Well!  Alright fine!” she said.she got up. She was wearing black and white striped shirt and black skirt.  She got on his lap. He pulled up her skirt. At first he spanked her though her panty. Then he pulled it down.  

At first she was fine. Later she flinced. She screamed. Ahe cried. She apologized and hugged him. She held on to him. She put her cloths back on.she did the dishes.  

She knew now that he ment business. She knew that he realy did have expectarions. Dishess were not as much of an issue.  On ocasions she needed to be reminded. 

She found that spanking calmed her down. She even fantasized about being spanked.  Spanking was incorperated into there daily life abd sexlife.

The end. 


This was inspired by a you tube video.”15 reasons to spank”. It was an anti spanking video. It was comparing child spanking to wife spanking.it was designed to outrage. I gues the authors of this video are unaware of domestic disipline. 

This is a work of fictiona

Mandated spanking 

In a post apocalyptic America, a farmer turned politician introduces an unorthodox methoud to bring family Harnony.

Much of human hustory has been defined by patriarchy.  Male dominated leadership. It began with farthers becoming tribal chiefton. Eventualy tribal chefton expended and became kings. 

Even with the rise of democracy, women were not alowed to vote. In the united states, women got the right to vote with the 19th amandment. Women started to run for political office.  Jeannette rankin became the first womeb elected to us congress.  In 1992 the largest numbers of females were elected to the u.s senate in what was called the year of the women. 

Eqality became more and more accepted and became the norm.  It became unthinkable that this would change.  

In the 23rd century, after devastating war, the world was rebuilding.  There were not a lit of opportunities.  Crime rose up. Crime was on the rise in females as well. Female crime was at an all time high. 

This led to the rise of right wing parties all the world. Manny leaders and legislators were advocated to a return to male dominance.  Some nations have taken away the right to vote or limited female participation in legislatures. 

In the colerado confederation, they did not take away the right to vote or to hold office. They did encourage family. They had some interesting reforms.  

George drake had two jobs. He was primarily a farmer. He owned a fairly good plot of land.  He had animals and crops. He was fairly sucsesfull. He was respected. 

He was 38 years old. His wife was only 22. Jenny was never realy interested in being maried. Her parents were both dead. There was not a lot of opportunities for nan ket alone women.  She was not interested in joining a war lord or the mafia.  She did not want to be a prostitute. She maried george.

She did not cook or cleen. She was a bit rebellious. He wanted a more traditional wife. It led to conflict. 

This drove him crazy.  His default was to be passive.  He was a path of least resistance kind of guy. He also liked order. 

One day she refused to cleen the dishes. He told her in no uncertain terms that she needed to do the dishes. She continued to ‘decline’ his ‘request’ . he tried to communicate his wishes more dramatically. No persuasion proved sucesfull. This gave him quite a headache.  

“Jenny! Do the dishes now!” he said. ” no!” she said. He took her over his knee. She wore a blue t shirt,green skirt and was barefoot.  He pulled up her skirt and pulled down her panty. 

She skirmed and did everything she could think of to stop him. He staeted of soft. He more tapped her but then spank. It became more and more harsh.  

She was shocked. She did not think he would realy do it. She obeyed and dis the dishes. Spanking became more and more routine.  

Over time he saw a dramatic change in jenny. She became a great house keeper. She became pregnient with twins and became a great mom. His experiences with his wife Jennifer gave him an idea. An idea that he could pepose in his other job.

He was a farner and land owner. We have not discussed George’s orher job. You see he was also prime minister of the colerado confederation.  As prime minister he perposed mandating wife spanking.under his bill husband would be required to spank there spouses. 

While the bill was heavily debated. There was little opisistion to it.in the end the bill passed. The law provef very sucesfull. Couples became more happy. Harnony increased. It led to hapier man. Happy man are productive men. 

Nearby nations adopted this legislation.  It spread to many nations in north America and south america. It was hugly popular and sucsesfull.  

The end.


This is a work of fiction ans fantasy.  The author is not advocating a return to patriarchal rule or eliminating womens suffrage.  The author is not advocating wife spanking ir domestic discipline relationship. 

I like the idea of a farmer who is part time prime minister.  I have wanted to introduce concept.  It worked hear.